The most long-lasting and enduring relationship an individual can develop is with a sibling. Considering the closeness in age and early association of siblings, they can bond for a lifetime. Psychologists are beginning to appreciate the sibling link and its dynamic role in a child's social development. Beyond the mother-child dyad, sibling associations are now attributed with determining cognitive faculties, emotional balance, self-sufficiency, and peer interactions. Clarifying the complex processes of these relationships and the benefit of parental involvement, Avidan Milevsky provides a foundational text for a growing area of study. Deploying personal narrative, theoretical examinations, and empirical data, he unravels the intricacies of the sibling exchange and their function in overall family structures. He identifies the factors that make such bonds successful (or harmful) and the influence of parents in shaping these outcomes. He also evaluates the compensatory possibilities of the sibling bond when faced with the absence of a parent or friend. Variables such as age, birth order, gender, and family size are tremendous considerations, and parents hoping to enhance the sibling bond gain immensely from understanding these predictors. Milevsky shows practitioners how to educate parents and help them apply their knowledge in practice. He particularly supplies crucial perspective on "deidentification," or conscious differentiation, in which parents encourage different life paths to minimize sibling comparison and competition. A major tool for clinicians, social service providers, and educators, this book clarifies the next frontier in child development research.
Reminds firstborn children that they will always special--even if another child or children follow--because they have been the first to do many things, including teaching their mother and father to be parents.
We exchanged small talk for a few minutes and as we chatted , I observed , “ Katie is obviously a baby , but Bryant Gumbel , he's got to be a first born , at least a first - born son . ” “ Bryant's not a first born , ” my new friend ...
We exchanged small talk for a few minutes and as we chatted , I observed , “ Katie is obviously a baby , but Bryant Gumbel , he's got to be a first born , at least a first - born son . ” “ Bryant's not a first born , ” my new friend ...
To others , they seem very sensitive and , indeed , their feelings are easily hurt . What If Your Birth Order Doesn't Fit ? One time , I got it wrong . Looking at Bryant Gumbel's hundred - dollar plus ties , immaculate suits , and take ...
At NBC , engaging Katie Couric , baby of the family , is matched with immaculate Bryant Gumbel , the second born of two brothers who , somewhere along the way , picked up a number of first - born characteristics , including impeccable ...
The Birth Order Effect for Couples
A boy named Lee sings about all the miserable aspects of being a middle child.
Großer Bruder, kleine Schwester: Die Geschwisterreihe u. ihre Bedeutung. Aus d. Amerikan. v. Reiner Arlt
The Birth Order Factor: how Your Personality is Influenced by Your Place in the Family
This pioneering inquiry into the significance of birth order answers both these questions with a conceptional boldness that has made critics compare it with the work of Freud and of Darwin himself.