When couples go to a marriage counselor there are three possible outcomes: (1) they get a fresh start, (2) they stay together and "cope with" a tense or sour marriage, or (3) they separate. Every couple wants the first outcome. They want to have a fresh start and be happy together. If they can't get a fresh start, they will jump to the third choice-separation-because they don't want the second. They have already been coping and are tired of it. Problems and adversity are not the crux of marital discord. All couples face adversity, but it doesn't cause problems for harmonious couples. Couples with satisfying marriages don't "cope" with their lives and with each other. They don't work on their marriages. The strength of their marriages lies not in their ability to cope with their problems, but in their ability to keep their bearings and to stay close. This book shows couples how to do that.
A collection of news segments from ABC News programs including Nightline, Primetime live, World news tonight, Day one, and 20/20 covering various sociological topics.
Marriage is hard because it is the union of two sinners engaged in the eternal battle between self-centeredness and servanthood, between living for self or dying to self. Marriages can flourish or die on this battlefied.
Two hours and ten shops later, as his feet began to ache, Keith wondered whether this birthday outing was a good idea or not. "Mary, how do you like this dress? It would look good on you." "No, 1 don't like it.
The author examines how criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling, can destroy relationships and shows how successful and happy relationships depend not so much on problem solving, but on building an emotional bank of well being ...
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Pour la presse internationale, comme pour des millions d'Américains, le docteur Gottman est l'inventeur d'une nouvelle science de l'amour.
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O psicólogo John Gottman passou 20 anos estudando o que faz um casamento durar - e agora você poderá usar seus métodos comprovados para avaliar, fortalecer e conservar uma relação....
Drawing on research into the dynamics of healthy relationships, a study of the basic principles that make up a long-lasting marriage shares advice on how to cope with such issues as work, children, money, sex, and stress.
Small-group study based on the best-selling book.