First published in 1996. This new book gives voice to an emerging consensus among bereavement scholars that our understanding of the grief process needs to be expanded. The dominant 20th century model holds that the function of grief and mourning is to cut bonds with the deceased, thereby freeing the survivor to reinvest in new relationships in the present. Pathological grief has been defined in terms of holding on to the deceased. Close examination reveals that this model is based more on the cultural values of modernity than on any substantial data of what people actually do. Presenting data from several populations, 22 authors - among the most respected in their fields - demonstrate that the health resolution of grief enables one to maintain a continuing bond with the deceased. Despite cultural disapproval and lack of validation by professionals, survivors find places for the dead in their on-going lives and even in their communities. Such bonds are not denial: the deceased can provide resources for enriched functioning in the present. Chapters examine widows and widowers, bereaved children, parents and siblings, and a population previously excluded from bereavement research: adoptees and their birth parents. Bereavement in Japanese culture is also discussed, as are meanings and implications of this new model of grief. Opening new areas of research and scholarly dialogue, this work provides the basis for significant developments in clinical practice in the field.
In this book, Blake Paxton shows how a community in southern Illinois continues a relationship with one deceased individual more than ten years after her death.
Continuing Bonds in Bereavement is the most comprehensive, state-of-the-art collection of developments in this field since the inception of the model.
This book will be of interest and value to both bereaved parents and their families, and to those who work with them.
... Kingsley Publishers, 2015 For children aged 6+, this book follows a little girl called Luna whose mother died a year before. ... 1999 This tale of unconditional love features Small, a little fox, who is feeling grumpy and anxious.
The affirmation and solace that narrators found in their deceased loved ones' uniqueness and continuing social significance reflect both the guiding principles of Cicely Saunders and the hospice movement, as well as that of the humanist ...
Bereavement is often treated as a psychological condition of the individual with both healthy and pathological forms. However, this empirically-grounded study argues that this is not always the best or only way to help the bereaved.
The quotes are from Lynn, William Dean Howells: An American Life, 12, and Madsen, “Social Guilt and Private Suffering in ... Anderson, Gibson, and Smith, Selected Mark Twain–Howells Letters, 2:681; Howells, Selected Letters, 3:295–96.
This collection of essays offers an integral understanding of how individuals move through grief and is a valuable addition to the library of anyone working with topics relevant to grieving adults, children, and adolescents"--
What if we responded to death... by throwing a party? By the time Erica Buist’s father-in-law Chris was discovered, upstairs in his bed, his book resting on his chest, he had been dead for over a week.
In this volume, black-letter Rules of Professional Conduct are followed by numbered Comments that explain each Rule's purpose and provide suggestions for its practical application.