In The Shame That Lingers: A Survivor-Centered Critique of Catholic Sin-Talk, A. Denise Starkey argues that the dominant legal model of sin in the Catholic Church is inadequate for hearing the experience of sin for survivors of childhood and domestic violence because it functions to shame rather than to heal. A universal understanding of the sinner, as found in mainstream Catholic sin-talk and confession, impedes human flourishing by silencing radical suffering in ways that make survivors complicit for the harm done to them. Starkey argues that a shame-free theology of sin is necessary if survivors are to encounter the profound love of God. Understanding sin from the perspective of the sinned-against makes possible a transformative solidarity with the other by reinvisioning the roles of speaker and listener.
We feel her pain, her shame, and her confusion. We cheer her victories. Most of all, we come away with a profound appreciation for the author's story and her willingness to bring it into the light.
Fierce is written in two parts addressing issues such as the grace, forgiveness, and love God has for you. Fierce includes over 100 devotions on topics that will help you see the love that God has for you.
This volume reports on the growing body of knowledge on shame and guilt, integrating findings from the authors' original research program with other data emerging from social, clinical, personality, and developmental psychology.
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This book is not a before-and-after story.
symbols, and practices used to address guilt can actually fuel shame rather than keep it at bay. ... Christian ethics moralizes the divine-human relation in shame-producing ways. ... Sharkey: The Shame that Lingers, 92-97.
We believe our indiscretion is hidden from the world and perhaps subconsciously believe that it is ok with God. Through personal experience, I learned that pornography is as addictive as any drug. I thought it to be a harmless act that ...
Though he wasn't fully awake,she stillsaw the shame reflected in those pools ofdeep blue—shame that hehadlost control, even inhis sleep. “Don't.” Though she whispered, she made hertonesharp. She didn't elaborate, but sawthe shadowsin ...
In this novel by the award-winning author of Gentlehands and Slap Your Sides, a teenager starts to look at life differently when his older brother is sent to the Persian Gulf To sixteen-year-old Gary Peel, Linger is home.
“It's called The Shame. Shame on them for doing such a thing. Shame on us for allowing it to happen. Shame enough to go around and cover us all with the stink of it. Shame that lingers to this day, and 184 Laura Anne Gilman.