In the book of Matthew (19: 6) it read; "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man separate." The operative phrase being; "What therefore God has joined together." Not what you have decided on a whim, or just because. You must inquire at God's temple before making any life-altering decisions. Marriage can be a Loving, and Beautiful experience. When the two people truly love each other. It also can be a very unpleasant and unhappy time in your life. Especially when it is not, entered into with the order of God.